Commonly asked questions about trans and straight relationships
Let us clear up some myths, and answer a lot of those initial questions you may have about trans and straight relationships.
Firstly, why do people form trans and straight relationships? Well. It's probably different for each couple, but the basic rules are the same.
As the website designer, I am in a trans and straight relationship. I didn't go searching for my relationship. It just happened. I had only previously been with natural born women. I have no interest in men what so ever. And now I am in a long-term, loving relationship with a beautiful, intelligent, funny and sexually powerful top only transsexual woman. How did this happen? A chance meeting in a bar. Some drinks. An offer to stay over. A very nervous and foreign first encounter. But then the temporary became permanent.
I was instantly attracted to Shaina. She is one of the most amazing women that I have ever seen, with the difference that she has the same genitalia as me. At first, it was really unusual to think about. Did this make me less of a man? No. Was I still the man outside of the bedroom, in the relationship? Yes. She likes to feel protected and cared for like any woman. Was I gay because I was with her. No, because I am not attracted to men. Even though I am the receptive partner, she is a beautiful woman and we are both entirely sexually satisfied by our encounters. Would I feel more comfortable with a passive (bottom) or a versatile transgender woman? No, because I love her for who she is. I love the way she looks, feels, tastes, smells and sounds. I am totally happy with my trans and straight relationship.
So for me, it started as an accidental encounter, and turned into love! Some people just get together for fun. Like conventional couples, some wish to adopt, or raise a family.
As a trans and straight couple, we want to help trans women everywhere, break out of poverty, bias and vulnerability. We want them to find strong and lasting relationships. This is why we have built this Site and made it FREE for all transgender women. Our male clients simply discreetly pay 10 cents per day for Site use. This small amount ($36.50) per year, helps us keep the lights on!
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Common FAQs
Although varied, this is what most men want to know. We are happy to answer other questions privately of course.
Like any women, trans women come in all shapes, sizes and personalities. You just have to find one that suits you and hope you suit her too. A lot of trans women are super hot!!! Many have multiple surgeries, which give them amazing features. Many take hormones which give them an amazing skin and glow!
So. Some trans women look super cute. Some of the passive or bottom girls take so many hormones, that they look like a physical dream! Some trans women look amazingly sexy, some look strong and some look like any other woman, or the girl next door.
We honestly have trans women that are a 10/10 looks wise, to those that are six foot 5 in heels and have the physique of tomb raider on our tours, and they are starting to migrate to our Site. We have a few that have no English, that we try to manage their profiles for.
Well. I sleep with one every day, but am not attracted to men in the slightest. So, if you are like me, probably not. I wouldn't be with my girl if she wasn't so feminine. Work that one out for yourselves!
Please be polite when talking to trans women about this. In my relationship (as in most according to Shaina), it is about personal tastes. A lot of trans women simply don't enjoy receiving anal sex. It is uncomfortable for them. But they get sexual release from mating anally with a male. So they seek men that are seeking this, and that get sexual satisfaction from this, and believe me, there are plenty.
For me, it's Thailand. The trans women there can be amazing! But they can be great around the World. Some of the Italian ones are just delicious! Argentina and Brazil have gorgeous trans women, as well. The Philippines has terrific looking trans women, often with a silky, smooth skin.
But, most Asian cities are quite hard to navigate. It can take a trans woman hours to get from her home to meet you. You really need to be well planned in advance to make the most of your trip!
Although awkwardly worded, this question needs to be addressed. There are generally 4 types of sexual roles when it comes to trans women.
1) Post -op trans women have had their genitalia changed to female genitalia. Sexually, they are like a natural female, but cannot become pregnant.
2) Passive or Bottom trans women still have their male genitalia, but just receive sexually. They do not use their penis on their male. They are either pre-op, or no-op (won't have genital surgery).
3) Versatile trans women both receive their male anally, and give themselves sexually, with their male receiving them anally. This is the most common and popular sexual relationship sought by most couples across our surveys.
4) Active or Top only trans women do not receive their male sexually, but solely penetrate him with their penis.
Different people seek out different types of relationships, but sexual roles are important to discuss at the outset to avoid incompatibility. Just be polite while discussing this. Some trans women are attracted to each other, and both other sexes. You might find you find your perfect partner!
I really didn't want to answer this, but it is one of the top 2 questions we receive, so we have decided to answer it here.
Firstly, let me say. Please don't fetishize trans women. If it is just a sexual experience you want, there may be better Sites for that.
Secondly, this is the way some trans women give and receive love, so it shouldn't be trivialised.
So, here goes.
The first time you receive anal sex from a trans woman, you will probably be filled with excitement, maybe some nervousness, and a whole lot of anticipation. This is how you got here right?
Well. It usually won't happen straight away. This is a woman, and there will be a level of expected foreplay. This is actually good, because at this point, there may be deep kissing, a lot of touching, tasting, noise, discovering her breasts and yes, getting close and personal with something that may be about to go where no one has gone before. There may be a finger or two heading to unchartered places. This is a great chance for you to work out if this is something you really want to do. Remember, it isn't for everyone.
So you both want to continue. Things progress and you find yourself on your back, being kissed heavily and suddenly your legs are parted and raised by her hands.
At this point, think about how women have felt when you have mounted them in the past. They have been excited, otherwise they wouldn't have been there. But, they were very vulnerable, and that is how you may be feeling now. You have this gorgeous creature now on top of you, you are partly immobilised by her weight and body positioning, and she is moving herself to increase this even more. You now feel the very end of her womanhood at the door of your most sacred place.
Remember. You can ask her to stop at any time. She looks deeply into your eyes and as she does, you feel the head of her penis squeeze through the entrance of your ass. It feels pretty good, but before you can appreciate it, she pushes in deeper. The inside of your ass stretches somewhat, and it hurts a bit. But again, before you can moan, she pushes all the way in, until you are fully impaled on her. She is an expert, and is taking you down beautifully. Your ass feels like it has been stretched like crazy. She slaps your face and then begins to pump you like crazy.
You are enjoying it, even though it hurts quite a bit, but somehow, you feel you are one step behind what is happening inside you. This is a natural physical reaction, as your ass muscles are still trying to repel her hard penis, which is already inside you. Because the pumping is so quick, the muscles are sometimes getting it wrong and pulling her further in, which she's loving. All of the resistance is exhausting and you are breathing heavily, just managing your body's attempts to free itself from the over-sized foreign invader. The more your ass resists, the more stimulation she gets, causing her to push even harder. Although it hurts, her breasts are bouncing around just above your face, her beautiful face looks even more eager and she sounds totally excited. You just try to bear the pain!
Suddenly your ass muscles have had enough. They spasm and stop resisting. She senses this and at this point, she drives fully forward and locks your hips into position with her thighs. Now only the underside of her beautiful buttocks are moving backward and forward as she stays fully inside you. Your breathing quickens in a random way. Your body is out of rhythm, but it could orgasm at any time. Her ab movements on top of you speed up and become more forceful. Her breathing quickens and her moans become high pitched. Suddenly she stops, fully inside you with you hips fully locked downwards. Your shoulders are pinned down by her forearms and hands. She cums deeply inside you, letting out a gasp before collapsing on your torso. You have been mated by your first hot transsexual lover.
On your second encounter, there is much less pain. The outside of your ass only tries to resist for a second and then lets her in. Your resistance is much less and she establishes her dominance over your body, more quickly.
On your third encounter, your ass flinches at her presence, but lets her straight in. This time there is no pain. Just a very full feeling, and your body has become accustomed to accepting her essence.
Most do yes, but some like both men and women. Some also find each other attractive. Some trans women have long term relationships with trans attracted females or couples. That is why we allow trans attracted females and couples to have memberships on our Site, because there is no other NICE PLACE for them to meet the trans girl of their dreams. There really is a trans girl fro everyone.
No. Not mostly. Most see themselves as women, and go to great lengths to change thier bodys as such. In Thailand, most trans women see themselves as a third gender. They are largely accepted by Thai society, but often aren't fully seen as equal. In the Philippines, some trans women refer to themselves as 'a gay', but not all.
